plane crash in c

there was an engineering job fair today. miraculously, i got the goods together and researched some companies and prepared resumes, etc. and ironed an outfit (!). Pants, too! i feel so grown up. but i'm wondering if there's any way to grow up (like get a job and do... taxes...) but not *be* grown up (join a mom book club, own a pda, that sort of thing). am i allowed to do that? or is that one of those "sounds cool but is actually really selfish" things.